I suspect my babysitter or housekeeper is stealing from me. Confront?

confront both of them about it. personally, like in privacy. but just in case make sure someone else is there with you. but if helen says its not her, but you dont think its her either, just say "hey, im not blaming you for anything im just trying to figure stuff out, i have a babysitter working for me too and im getting suspicious, so dont take anything too seriously or hard". from reading this, i have a feeling it would be barb. but im not sure. maybe try setting up a camera in your sons room so that whoever is there taking it, you will know. BUT, i reccomend trying the camera first and then if u still have no evidence, THEN ask them about it. hope this helps && good luck!