Friday, July 15, 2011

Is it about looks, and how can I get past feeling so rejected?!?

Xtina, hi. Well, all you can do now is get on with life, see this as a learning experience, and try to be honest next time. One thing i would not do though is beat yourself up, or feel like you are not worthy of this guy. See, no matter how cool, funny or good looking this guy is, at the end of the day he is still JUST a guy out of literally MILLIONS of guys. You don't need him to be happy. See, no one can make you happy. Only you can do that for yourself. So, you made a mistake by not being honest. No big deal. We've all done it before in life. Just be honest from now on. Now, the other issue you need to work on is self-esteem. See the weird thing about life is, however you feel and whatever you think of yourself is exactly the experiences you will see in life. Like, if you believe that you are cool, interesting, good looking or whatever -- then so will other people. It all comes down to your self-image and how you feel about yourself. If you have low self-esteem, you simply need to love yourself and tell yourself good things constantly. Believe that you are worthy of ANY man, because, you are! You're worthy simply because you are ALIVE. So, just move on. Don't worry about this guy not liking you. Besides, feeling good when people like you, and feeling bad when they don't is no way for anyone to live. It's just silly. I bet you are absolutely gorgeous, and that PLENTY of guys would love to get to know you right now. All the best to you!

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